Showing posts with label Memoir. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Memoir. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 17, 2024

Standing Tall

The Inspiring Story of Kayla-Jordan Parris

1999–2023

Collated & Edited by Christine Parris-Debique


“I cleared my mind from the negatives

And had to open up and see

That I have lupus

Lupus doesn’t have me!” 

In her own words from her poem Lupus II, Kayla, forever the spirited child of words and passion, was a life force to be reckoned with during her years on earth. A fiercely intelligent and vivacious spoken word poet and performer, gifted with words and wit, she commented on what was going on around her from a very young age. 

This memoir of Kayla’s life, put together by her grandmother, minces no words about how Lupus destroys, bit by bit, organ by organ, the beautiful strong body of a child, teenager, young woman—and that of her mother with a similar condition. But the many contributors to this book, and Kayla’s own words, balance this with what she was really about: a powerhouse of talent and determination, a Caribbean child full of love and kindness, a daughter, a sister and a great friend who was truly larger than life for everybody who had the good fortune to meet her.

Let Kayla-Jordan Parris show you what it means to live life to the fullest in the face of unsurmountable adversity.


About the Author/Editor:

Christine Parris-Debique was born in the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago and has lived there for most of her life except for sixteen years spent in the neighbouring island of Barbados.  She holds a BSc in Management Studies from The University of the West Indies and is a Fellow of the Association of Certified Chartered Accountants, U.K. She is the mother of three sons and grandmother of two granddaughters and two grandsons. She lives in Petit Valley, Trinidad with her husband and Standing Tall is her first published book.


ISBN 978-976-8341-43-3

Paperback

188 pages

Fully illustrated in colour


Available in select bookstores in Trinidad.

Tuesday, August 13, 2024

From Bliss to Chaos to Understanding

From Bliss to Chaos to Understanding
My Cancer Journey
A Personal View Of My Life’s Struggles
By Vikki Ramdass

 

When Vikki Ramdass was into her first year of her doctoral thesis in 2018, she was diagnosed with Stage 1, triple-negative breast cancer. She had to stop her doctorate and undergo treatment, the journey From Bliss, to Chaos, to Understanding that this memoir describes.
Many Trinidadians know Vikki through her extensive charitable work.  True to Mahatma Gandhi’s adage “Be the change that you wish to see in the world”, she represented Trinidad and Tobago, through Lions International in several Caribbean countries and is the holder of twenty gold medals from charitable walks. She was bestowed the Mere Desh Committee Award for Community Service for Indian Arrival Day in 2012 and the National Youth Award for Volunteerism by the Ministry of Gender, Youth and Child Development in 2014.
After her breast cancer diagnosis, Vikki became an advocate for breast cancer survivors. She contributed articles on survivorship with “Elephants and Tea”, a US-based online magazine to help adolescent and young adults with cancer. Amazed at the support that she received over the years of writing, she has published From Bliss, to Chaos, to Understanding to provide comfort to cancer patients, survivors and caretakers in the future.


ISBN 978-976-8244-56-7
40 pages
Fully illustrated in colour

Carmody Road

A Memoir by Robin McDonald

Growing Up in St. Augustine, Trinidad, W.I.

This charming book is part three in a series of memoirs of the McDonald family of Trinidad, after “Beloved” and “Archie”.
Here, Thelma’s and Archie’s daughter Robin digs deep into her treasured childhood where she brings to vibrant life a loving family of many interests whose days were filled with fascinating encounters and experiences of a time gone-by enjoyed to the full with friends, neighbours and people you just met. One gets a lively glimpse of the joys and sadnesses, the tests and tribulations, trials and triumphs which in those days were so much more person-to-person lived than they are in this age of electronic relationships.  Here she reconstructs the neighbourhood of St. Augustine during the 40s and 50s – creating a pictorial map as your guide. The book is also interspersed with some of her brother Ian’s vivid and heartfelt poems.
So join Robin in her re-discovery of a microcosm in time and place that has all but disappeared.

ISBN: 978-976-8244-52-9
218 pages
Fully illustrated in black and white

Order here on Amazon

Tuesday, April 18, 2023

From Tomato Boy to Business Magnate

A fascinating account of the life of a successful businessman and his family that has been 20 years in the making! "From Tomato Boy to Business Magnate" keeps what the title promises and charts, with lavish illustrations, the life both private and public of "Bally" (Mr. Balliram Maharaj, CMG) and his wife "Lilsy".

Having provided proofreading, editing, design and layout for the book, we got intimately acquainted with the manuscript that was written by Shamshu Deen, HBM, and edited by Dr. Iezora Edwards (who patiently guided us through the myriad of changes and corrections!) 

What we liked about this particular memoir was the hands-on business and life advice that Bally liberally shares: from what to do if you are kidnapped, to how to supervise cashiers, to how to deal with wire transfers and insurance contracts. In between the reader enters the magical world of a man who somehow manages to be superbly successful at his business ventures and yet finds time to get involved in steelband, the creation of a hospital, tennis and cricket, finding his ancestral village in India, local politics, the First People in Arima, playing mas—spanning all religions and cultures of Trinidad and Tobago. In short, this Tomato Boy is truly a Trini!


Easy to read, lavishly illustrated, with so many different topics being discussed and explored, this book has something of interest for everybody. And it's fun as well since it feels so personal, so rich as a legacy of an 80-year old man who has done ever so much in his life.


Softcover copies of the book are available for purchase at @admimportexport in Arima. 

Please contact Ms. Burgess at 715-8155 or giselle.burgess@admtnt.com, to reserve your copy.

ISBN 978-976-96964-1-9

404 pages, softcover, fully illustrated in colour

Friday, December 9, 2022

Via the Roundabout

Family History by Beverly Scobie

Family histories are a genre of ethnohistory that at once educate and enthrall family and friends alike. Not all members of a clan care to know about their roots, often fearing that they’ll discover phenomena and events they would rather leave buried. Yet, for those of us courageous enough to face and embrace the truth, even truth that hurts, excavating and exploring one’s family tree is thrilling and fulfilling.

This beautiful, richly illustrated hardcover book traces the history of the Cordiner/Scobie family from Tobago and Toco. The story spans over two centuries, from 1819 to now. Beverly Scobie not only wrote the text, but sourced many of the beautiful images in the book. For over two years, the author, whom we have never met in person because she is located in Brooklyn, worked closely with Paria Publishing's director Dominic Besson here in Trinidad, who carefully curated the additional content from our company archives and designed this splendid publication. 

Via the Roundabout tells a story that has never appeared in Trinidad and Tobago before with this level of visual appeal, fascinating interest, and captivating content.

"In Via the Roundabout, I trace my family’s history from Tobago in 1819 to post-Independence Trinidad and Tobago. The fascinating story begins with Margaret the family matriarch, a 22-year-old female enslaved by Arthur Cordiner, a Scotsman. Joseph Arthur of Barbados, my greatgrandfather, enters the picture post Emancipation as the island’s economy collapsed, prompting an exodus of Tobagonians to Trinidad. The majority of migrants landed in northeast Trinidad, Toco to be exact, where the cocoa estates of Sans Souci were in desperate need of labourers. My forebears were among the deluge of Tobagonians who continued to flood the northeast corner of Trinidad well into the 20th century. My father, Alpheus Scobie, in escaping his roots, joined the Seventh-day Adventists in the 1930s, passing on a legacy of integrity and industry to his 8 children, who continue their contributions to society after careers of distinction and dedication.

I grew up a stone’s throw away from the iconic Cunapo Roundabout, which marks the end of the Toco Main Road and the beginning of the Eastern Main Road, the gateway to other parts of the Island." (Beverly Scobie)

“Readers will find Via the Roundabout informative and instructive, and will deeply appreciate the fact that the story is grounded in its historical context. Beverly Scobie is eminently qualified to trace her family tree, given her legal mind and training. She writes with clarity and lucidity, weaving a compelling narrative that is sure to prompt readers to explore their own roots and to face the raw truth about themselves.” (A Reader)

"I am very impressed with the book. It is handsomely produced and visually most attractive with gorgeous pictures. The narrative is well written and compelling. You give an excellent portrait of life in Toco before the 1960s and of growing up in SG in the 50s and 60s. Well done! But I realize you are not done…" (History Professor Emerita Bridget Brereton)

So hopefully Ms. Scobie will continue another round around the roundabout!

ISBN 978-976-8244-49-9

196 pages, full colour, 8.5 x 11", hardcover

Via the Roundabout by Beverly Scobie is available at Paper Based Bookshop  Bookshop in the Normandie Hotel and online on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. 

#pariapublishing #caribbeanbooks #caribbeanhistory #tobago #trinidadandtobago #toco #cocoa #seventhdayadventists

 

Review by Selwyn Cudjoe in the Trinidad Express, 24 December 2022:

"Today is Christmas Day. Let us give thanks and praise to the birth of a wonderfully well-researched book, Via the Round About, written by Beverly Scobie. It traces one part of Scobie’s family, beginning with Joseph Arthur, the patriarch, who was “enslaved for all of his formative years”.
Scobie is ambitious. She wishes to tell of “The Scobie Family’s Story of Resolve and Resilience from 1819 through Emancipation, the Colonial Era, and Beyond”. Although this is quite a bit to chew, Scobie keeps our interest all along this magnificent journey, entertaining and enlightening us as she tells her story.
This beautifully crafted book is enhanced by the well-preserved family portraits, her photographs of the area, and the diverse richness of the Paria archives. In it, Scobie integrates the growth of her family with the development of Toco and the surrounding villages where she grew up.
Scobie’s family history starts with Peter Cordner who, in 1866, travelled from Tobago to the cocoa estates of Sans Souci, Toco to seek employment. She says of this perilous journey to Trinidad: “He and his fellow labourers continued to risk their lives traveling by small boats on the high seas, the only means of ­getting to cocoa estates.”
Thereafter, Scobie gives us a ball-by-ball description of her family’s development, their achievements, and their failures. She speaks of the pioneering work of some of her family members (such as Isaac and her father) and even the prevalence of mental diseases that affected family members, particularly Mary, her grandmother.
The bold adventures of her forebears allow Scobie to display her rich literary imagination. She writes: “When Peter Cordner first arrived, the region was still predominantly virgin forest, sparsely populated and isolated from the rest of Trinidad. The outlines of tiny enclaves were barely visible in areas where forests had been cleared. There were no lights, so that at nightfall it became pitch black and silent, except for the occasional flame of lighted flambeau. There were no roads and labourers walked for miles, most of the time barefooted, through densely wooded forests on dirt paths created by the footfall of the First People.”
Scobie’s description of the funeral rituals in the village is one of the most attractive aspects of her story—the preparation of the corpse for burial, the wake scene that included limbo and bongo dancing, the prayers that were rendered, and the pall-bearing rituals. These stirred my memories. When my father died in 1954, all of his children and close cousins were passed over his corpse three times as it lay in our living room.
Scobie’s recollection of those innocent days of yore when adults and children looked forward to moonlit nights is also memorable: “Silly as it sounds, trapping candle-flies in a glass bottle and pretending it to be a lamp was really entertaining to children back then. But they made sure to avoid any larger than usual candle-fly, convinced that it might be a Soucouyant. This was especially so, after hearing the stories of the adults who told tales rooted in folklore and legends of the islands. Stories of Papa Bois, the old man of the forest who protected the animals from hunters; Soucouyant, the old lady of the vampire family who would suck your blood while you slept; La Diablesse, the spirit of the wronged woman whose alluring dress concealed one cloven hoof; and Duenne, the baby who died without the benefit of baptism. These and a host of other frightful creatures who lived amongst the villagers, unseen.”
She also describes the native delicacies she ate, the games children played, and all of those intangible things that made those early days so special. The visual beauty of the matapal tree, the sumptuous nature of the home-made toolum and the bene balls, make the reader want to grab them and eat them off the pages.
One would be remiss if one did not speak of the central role that the Seventh-Day Adventist religion played in the lives of her family and the discipline that it imposed upon them. She says: “My parents were not well-off, but we lacked nothing. My father’s faith was the foundation on which his life was built. It taught him to be disciplined and industrious. The strict routine practised in our household when I grew up was Daddy’s letter of the law interpretation of religious doctrine espoused by the Seventh-Day Adventist denomination.”
In 1947, Melville and Frances Herskovits, famous anthropologists from Northeastern University of Chicago wrote a book, Trinidad Village, that won much acclaim. Well versed in the study of black life, they wrote about the Africans in Toco. Harold E Davis, in a wonderful review in Boletín Bibliográfico de Antropología Americana, praised them for the use of “a matured methodology based on clearly defined theoretical concepts, for this community of New World Negroes. Especially notable is the clarity of their theoretical concepts. As a result, this study of the culture of the Negro Village of Toco... has unusual value both for the cultural anthropologist and for the historian of New World cultures”.
Scobie’s book may be lacking in the use of theoretical concepts, but she tells a story that is worthy of any anthropologist, historian or casual reader who is curious about our past.
Via the Round About is not an ordinary book. There is a beauty and innocence that is especially welcomed at a time when there is so much brutality in our island, and our people are unable to appreciate their beauty and their truth.
Therefore, congratulations are in order for Beverly Scobie for showing us this magnificent slice of our island and our people at a time at which it is so needed."

Friday, October 7, 2022

Nil Illegitimi Carborundum - Don't let the Bastards Grind You Down


A Memoir - Ronald  Harford’s  Recollections of  his  Life  as  a  Caribbean  Banker

“Nil Illegitimi Carborundum - Don’t let the bastards grind you down!”

Guided by this motto (and a couple of others), Ronald Harford embarked at the age of 17 to become a banker in Trinidad and Tobago. His career at first Barclays Bank and then Republic Bank was to span more than five decades, and lead him to become the managing director and chairman of Republic Bank. 

In this memoir he remembers some of the people he met along the way and the often hilarious moments that they experienced together. He also gives ample space to his family, friends, colleagues and business partners to share what they warned him would be “finally the truth about Ron”! 

The photo on the back cover was taken at his farewell gala in December 2019, his last “official” act as outgoing chairman. He thought that it would be a fitting picture to invite readers to read about his life as a Caribbean banker.

 

ISBN 978-976-8308-48-1

Hardcover, size 7 x 10”, 378 pages, fully illustrated

 

Table of contents:

·       Growing Up Years – Schooling, Childhood and Family

·       Apprentice Years – Stints in Barbados, England, Grenada and Dominica

·       Journeyman Years – Early career

·       Becoming CEO – The CLICO Drama

·   Master Years – Expanding Republic Bank into the Caribbean and Africa, Power to make a Difference Programme

·       Golden Years – Involvement in non-Bank activities, travels and family life

·       Index and Glossary

 

The book was printed by The Office Authority Limited, and was sponsored by Republic Bank Limited. It will be available in select local bookstores and internationally via online retailers like Amazon, Barnes and Noble and Bookshop. Proceeds will go to the Princess Elizabeth Home.

Mr. Harford’s career at Republic Bank, formerly Barclays Bank D.C.O., spanned 56 years from 1963–2019. During his tenure, beginning with post boy, he served in many different positions and under his supervision many of the present-day features of the financial system, such as credit cards and the Linx machine, were introduced to Trinidad and Tobago. He also spearheaded Republic Bank’s expansion into the wider Caribbean and even into Ghana, Africa, through the acquisition of other banks in various countries.

“Nil Illegitimi Carborundum” is his Memoir, told in the first person, in which he describes the highs and lows of his life in an approachable, easy-to-read language, often using the vernacular. It is a colourful book of an interesting life, and features many photographs of his personal collection.

Press Coverage:
Newsday 9 October 2022 
Trinidad Express, 10 October 2022:



Photos of the launch:


Launch of “Nil Illegitimi Carborundum” Memoirs - Ronald Harford’s Recollections of his life as a Caribbean Banker.


Remarks – Anna-Maria Garcia-Brooks

Wednesday 5th October 2022, 10.30 am, Arthur Lok Jack Global School of Business

Good morning, Ladies and Gentlemen.  

I must start by congratulating our country’s newest author on the production of a masterpiece.  I know that the production of this book was a gift to him and that writing his Memoirs might not have been at the top of his bucket list, but as he said somewhere during the journey to get us here, the downtime occasioned by the Covid-19 pandemic provided the ideal opportunity to reflect and put thoughts to paper.  So those thoughts are what we are here to launch and celebrate today. Congratulations Mr. Harford on this absolute treasure that is your Memoir. 

The theme of the book “Nil Illegitimi Carborundum – Don’t let the Bastards Grind you Down!”, is so apt, as it reflects advice that Ron Harford clearly followed throughout his life, as he said in his Author’s Note, and which he gave generously to us then young and upcoming executives at Republic Bank.  Often when he gave it, time permitting, it would be accompanied by the story of how he came upon the advice in the first place, sometimes spun with creative enhancements.  For my part, I would listen with rapt attention, as I did with all the stories, as if hearing them for the first time.  In a bizarre way, this advice brought me an unusual sense of relief and encouragement when I received it - relief in recognising that someone else understood that there was a challenge that had the potential to break me, and the encouragement that I didn’t have to let it.  It said that my reaction to situations would be my choice.  I could let the situation grind me down, or I could choose to rise above it.  Ron Harford always reminded us how important it was to rise above; to take the high road, to not be drawn into petty, time-wasting squabbles; to be the bigger person – always, to think the long game and be long brained as he would say with his mischievous grin.  Always give people their just due – be fair; acknowledge their contributions, celebrate them, be magnanimous.  He taught us these lessons and many more by his words and actions.  Working with him was like working with a driven, passionate yet caring professor from whom you learnt every day.   

I had the great honour of reading this book prior to its final publication, at the author’s request. Truth and facts are very important to him, as are integrity and honesty.  He wanted me to read and critique.  To be brutally candid where I needed to be, point out areas that, from my perspective, should be changed and of course to pick up any grammar and syntax issues – “just give honest feedback”, he said, “I value your views”. So feedback I gave.

I must confess that I originally started reading the book while seated at my desk in my home office, approaching it like an editing task, not expecting what I was to encounter.  However, knowing the gentleman as I do, I should have anticipated what was to come.  It wasn’t a task at all; it was the most entertaining and enjoyable read that I’ve had in a very long time.  I would burst into spontaneous uncontrollable peals of laughter at the accounts told by a most accomplished storyteller; be shocked and even mortified by his candour in recalling some events; and reflect thoughtfully on his analysis of situations.  

So, after reading the first part of “The Growing up Years” and realising how entertaining and how much humour resided within its pages, I abandoned my desk and set aside a couple of hours each night, sitting in my bed, propped against some comfy pillows, armed with yellow post-it slips and pen to make notes, and read to be entertained, as well as to critique; to reminisce, to learn of new adventures and to live vicariously through others.  His voice could be heard in every word, every sentence and every paragraph written.  The experience was like stepping back in time and imagining what life might have been like in the 1940’s and 50’s in Port of Spain, Guyana and other parts of the Caribbean.  It was visualising myself in some of the situations in which he found himself and wondering what I might have done.  It was a remarkable stroll down memory lane.  It seemed that adventure followed him, or maybe he just found the adventure in all that he did.  He always told us to have fun doing our work and to spend time exploring, wherever we went, learning the history of places – whether on business or pleasure.  

The experience of reading this book was akin to listening to him tell the stories – the expressions are authentically his.  This is Ron Harford.  

He is so well travelled and well read, and has visited so many parts of the world, that when he speaks about them, his contributions are from actual experience.  I remember that when I had to travel to Petit Martinique for the opening of our branch there, he told me to take the ferry, which was really a pirogue in disguise, and go across to PSV Island and drive around in the golf cart to see where the movie stars stay when they visit. He told me don’t be surprised when the plane is landing in Carriacou to see men running helter skelta out onto the tarmac to shoo away the goats, and he was correct – it happened exactly as he described it.  When my sons were children, and I told him that Gerry and I were taking them to the south of England on holiday, he told me to make sure and take them to pick strawberries, to run in the fields and to walk around Stone Henge.  And for each of these recommendations there would be a wonderfully amusing story attached.  

During my reading of this book, one night around 11.30 pm, after drying my eyes, having emerged from a fit of uncontrollable laughter from one of his humorous quips, I decided to send a What’s App message to Mr. H., telling him just how much I was enjoying the book and what a delightful task he had given me.  Having sent it and realising the lateness of the hour, I hoped that his phone was silenced, as my intention had not been to awaken him and Alison at that hour – it was just to reach out to say, “this is so much fun.  Thank you”.  I saw from the two blue ticks that he read the message sometime the next day and knew that he would have been amused by the feedback.  

To say that I enjoyed one chapter more than another would be an untruth, but while the Growing up Years, the Apprentice Years and the Journeyman years intrigued me and sparked my imagination, it was the chapters on Becoming CEO and the Master Years that I connected with the best.  Obviously because I related to those legs of the journey, along with all the other employees at the Bank.   

That story of the Barclays manager who gave him the sage advice in Latin which now forms the theme of his memoirs, and many other stories with which he regaled us during our time, some of which are contained in the book, helped in their own way to build us, to mould us into the Republic culture and I daresay, to shape the culture itself.  I remember thinking that his words will live on, when after a monthly sales meeting, sometime in 2006, Derwin, said to the team, “as the Chairman would say, let’s go and make a dollar!”  Mr. H. always said that to us!

Stories are such an integral part of the shaping of organisational culture, of transmitting and sharing history, of building bonds of friendship that endure, of sharing who you are, of allowing people to see you – really see you beyond the facade, and as you would read in his memoirs, Ron Harford has had no qualms about letting people see him.  What you see is what you get.  He strategizes and plans for the future, but he doesn’t play mindless games.  He is focused and pointed and would shoot 10 questions at you before you could answer the first.  

It’s also fascinating the impact stories of events can have on your life and your actions.  His account of how he found the old letters from Colonial Bank and took the initiative to protect them, hiding them safely at the back of the Bank’s vault and having the audacity to write on the box that they should not be removed, by order of Ronald F. deC. Harford was a tremendous inspiration to me.  I was amazed that someone so young and so relatively junior, could be so audacious and authoritative – what a leader! The letters of course now form part of the UWI’s collection and are preserved for future generations.

I learnt a few lessons from that story though – I learnt about genuine initiative; foresight to see the future and to see the value of something that might have been underestimated; I learnt about the importance of protecting and preserving, and at the right time celebrating that which has been part of our history; of who we were, who we are and who we can become.  But perhaps the most important and impactful lesson for me, was that regardless of who we are, or what our status might be, we each have a voice, and we can take action and ownership; we can make decisions and we don’t always have to get prior approval – sometimes just asking for forgiveness afterwards is enough – that’s another bit of advise that I sometimes followed.  Mr. H.  many of those lessons guided my life at the Bank and outside, and I thank you for them.  

Apart from being a flawless, ingenious and entertaining storyteller, Ronald F. deC. Harford is a true Caribbean legend, and the stories contained in the pages of these memoirs are rich and a veritable treasure trove of lessons from which young, and not so young professionals could learn. Lessons on how to dream and to go after your dream; lessons in resilience, patience and playing the long game: lessons in dealing with difficult personalities; lessons in humility, acknowledging what you don’t know and the openness to learn from everyone; lessons in being gracious and recognising someone else’s strength and celebrating their successes; putting in the effort above and beyond what is expected of you; recognising and nurturing talent.  In today’s business world, considerable time, effort and financial resources are invested in teaching supervisors, managers and even executives how to be mentors – in his time, Ron Harford did that naturally – its who he is, and while it’s not said explicitly in the book the reader gets that message from his actions. 

Like his predecessors, especially Dunbar Mc Intyre and John Jardim, Victor Mouttet, Ronald Huggins and Lloyd Samaroo, all of whom I have had the pleasure of working alongside, Ron Harford has been a huge contributor to the growth and success of the Republic Bank that we know today.  He scoffs at being called a visionary, but he is one.  Very much a family man, whose wife, children, siblings, parents and relatives came first, I sometimes felt that Republic tied for first place in his heart.  That enduring love for the organisation was compelling and infectious.  Those of us who worked closely with him felt it, we lived it and we embraced it ourselves –Nigel, David, Jackie, Karen, Tony, Derwin, Robert, Ainsworth and so many others.   

So Mr. H, your memoirs are a treasure and a must read.  Thank you for sharing your wonderful journey and adventures with the world through them and the honour of being a part of your journey.  I shall never tire of reading these memoirs.  

I thank you.


Remarks by Bridget Brereton, Professor Emerita of History, University of the West Indies

I first became aware of Ron Harford when I heard how, as a very young man working in the Port of Spain branch of Barclays Bank DCO, he’d rescued boxes containing correspondence dating back to the 1830s. This was from the Colonial Bank, Barclay’s predecessor here and included valuable historical source materials. He saved them from certain destruction and later donated them to the UWI Library (he tells the story briefly in his memoir). Naturally this convinced me he was a most unusual banker. Much later I learned—and saw for myself—what a consistent, generous and thoughtful friend of the University, including the ALJ Global School of Business, he had been over many decades.

Now Ron’s memoir is the record of his life mainly spent in banking, with what became Republic Bank, but I’m not here to talk about that. (Full disclosure: I don’t even bank there, except for a pathetically small account at the UWI branch.) Instead I want to think about what memoirs are and why they are valuable.

The word comes from the same root as memory, so a memoir is a person’s written memories of his/her life. Some memoirs deal only with a bit of the life, say a memoir of one’s youth and coming of age; Ron’s deals with his whole life from childhood to the present. In fact he goes further back to talk about his Grenadian forebears. (Grenadian people aren’t easy. There’s a very funny scene in the book where Ron has a dispute about a piece of land in Blanchisseuse with the late Karl Hudson-Phillips. It ends well only because they are both of Grenadian heritage.) Anyway, as it covers Ron’s whole life, it could equally be called an autobiography—a biography of oneself.

In this kind of life writing, the author crafts his own version of his story. It’s his truth, his choice of what he remembers and how, and of what he chooses not to remember, or at least not to write about. It’s how he orders his memories. Usually, someone who’s no longer young looks back and reflects on his life’s journey, its good and bad episodes. Nearly all memoirs or autobiographies, including Ron’s, are like that.

So a memoir or autobiography is very different from a biography, where someone’s life is researched and written by someone else. Often the subject is safely dead. With most biographies, an effort is made to achieve objectivity—as Oliver Cromwell told the painter who was doing his portrait, it must be “warts and all”. We don’t look for objectivity in a memoir, where we know that the author has chosen what memories to write about and how. This of course doesn’t mean that things have simply been made up, just that the author is free to shape his memories as he thinks best.

People have been writing memoirs for centuries, all over the world, and for many different reasons. Often they are not meant ever to be published or even to be read by anyone, or only by family. Perhaps the reason might be to reflect on your life, to make sense of it, to convey to your children what your life was like and where you came from. Or to meditate on your spiritual journey (many memoirs have been written for religious purposes).

People in public life—overwhelmingly men until quite recently—tend to write intending their memoir to be published and so to be read by a much wider group. Politicians are especially likely to write memoirs, often based on diaries they kept when they were involved in public life—I don’t know if Ron used diaries as a source or just relied on his memory. One motive for this kind of memoir is clearly to justify one’s life, defend and ‘big up’ one’s achievements, maybe put down one’s opponents. Some recent memoirs from prominent local politicians seem to fit that description.

Others who write memoirs intended for publication want to document their life and achievements so that others can learn from them, and to contribute to the history of the institutions they have been part of. This is a sort of archival purpose. Probably Ron’s book fits into this category.

I’m a historian, so I want to emphasise how valuable memoirs/autobiographies are as sources. Even unpublished memoirs, hand written, typed or word processed, can often be found in family possession, or in archives and libraries; if they’re published like Ron’s they are of course easily accessible. Memoirs are among the many kinds of written sources on which we can base the study of the past.

Needless to say, historians never read memoirs uncritically. We know all too well that they are carefully crafted representations of someone’s life. So we always seek corroboration from other sources, and if we can’t find any, we are cautious in how we incorporate material from a memoir into our research. Nevertheless, memoirs have always been recognized as important primary sources for the historian.

As I said, politicians, and more generally men who have been in public life, are especially likely to publish memoirs. Business people have been less so inclined. But in the subfield of business history and more generally economic history, memoirs and diaries by industrialists, merchants, financiers and bankers have been very important. Some go back to the 1500s, for European history.

Locally, we’ve begun to see the publication of memoirs, or biographies which are partly memoirs, by prominent businessmen…the late Anthony Sabga and Sidney Knox, for example, and Ken Gordon, happily still with us. My spies tell me that one by or about Mr Lok Jack is in the pipeline too. As a banker, Ron’s memoir fits into this trend, and provides a view of the financial side of business development in T&T and the Caribbean over the last half century.

So speaking now as a historian, as well as a friend and admirer of Ron, this memoir is very welcome. It makes a valuable contribution to understanding the economic history of the nation and region since Independence. It is also a lively read, with the unmistakable Harford voice and larger than life personality coming through very clearly. I congratulate Ron and Republic Bank on the appearance of this book and hope that many people read it.

(The speech was read by Mr. Harford's daughter, Kathryn Hosein.)


Presentation by Alice Besson (Producer of the Book) and Jacqueline Quamina, Derwin Howell, David Dulal-Whiteway, Mario Affonso, and Gregory Thomson (former RBL Colleagues of Mr. Harford)

One of the leitmotifs of the book is “flying in little rinky-dink planes in the Caribbean”. 

You know what I mean right? Those one or two-propeller affairs, held together with spit and duct tape, that buzz around the islands and Guyana?

Well, I think I need to bring some witnesses on stage, long-standing sufferers who Ronald made to fly in those contraptions. 

Would you please join me on stage: Jacqueline Quamina, Derwin Howll, David Dulal-Whiteway, Mario Affonso, and Gregory Thomson.

One day, Ronald arranged to go to Tobago to explain the rollout to a branch manager there. To Mario Affonso’s total shock, there on the tarmac stood a little one-engined four-seater propeller machine! It was a little plane that all bankers shared to transport work between Tobago and Trinidad.

Mario Affonso:

“I sat down in total fright and watched Ron Harford like a child in the plane, fearless, enjoying himself. We went Tobago, we visited the branch, had lunch with Carl Chatoor, the manager, and talked our business. Then we had to fly back. By the time I got back to Trinidad, I was so scared out of my britches, I don’t think I ever wanted to travel after that. I got a long-lasting fear of flying out of that from which I never really recovered. But that was another side of Ron Harford: what I am getting you into, I am comfortable with it, and I am enjoying your discomfort. He used to have this Dennis the Menace little smile on his face—he knows you are uncomfortable and he is enjoying it! And you are miserable and vex with him because he is enjoying the fact that you are so miserable! But that was Ron Harford—he has this little childishness inside of him, still does.”

One thing that everybody seems to agree on is that if you are travelling with Ronald and walk through an airport, you had to RUN to keep up with him! Nobody walked as fast as he did! 

David Dulal-Whiteway:

“We always joke about travelling with Ronald. Ronald is one busybody! Going through an airport with him, we were always rushing to keep up with Ronald. He would be teeming going through the airport. After 9/11, they had all these additional security checks, and he used to say, ‘That’s okay for them, but they are not supposed to treat people like us like this too!’”

How did Ronald get his colleagues to climb into these sardine tins with wings? Here’s Jacqueline Quamina’s take:

Jacqueline Quamina:

“We were going to St. Vincent to look at a bank. It’s early morning, we are going on a private plane, and we went to the old airport in Piarco, myself, Gregory Thomson, Ron Harford. When I saw the plane that we were going in—a little yellow thing—I thought, “My God, we are going in THAT? Look at the size of it! I have a daughter at home, I really should not be going on a plane like this.” I don’t think I had ever been in such a small plane. I was waiting to see if Gregory was going to say anything, but he didn’t. So we went. Peer pressure! But I had never been so close to the clouds before than in that little yellow plane with four seats.”

Flying back from a branch visit to Linden in Guyana the pilot tried to find Ogle, the airport, without radar or GPS. Ronald instructed his colleagues Kamala Singh, Karen Yip Chuck and Richard Vasconcellos to look out the windows to find the airport in the misty darkness settling. Eventually, they spotted Ogle, and landed brushing the tops of the sugarcane fields. A member of the long-suffering team from Trinidad stepped off the plane, and kissing the ground, said, ‘Thank you Lord!’ 

And then there is the famous story of Gregory Thomson being dragged twice by Ronald across the Atlantic. In one day.

Gregory Thomson:

“Ronald actually did drag me twice across the Atlantic in one day! We flew from Trinidad to London, arriving early in the morning, and went straight to meetings with Barclays. They were coming out of their Caribbean branches, and we wanted to see if we could buy their interest in the region. Immediately after the main meeting at 3 or 4 o’clock, we were catching a flight from London to go to Toronto, and arrived in Canada at about 6 o’clock in the afternoon. When you are working with Ronald, time is of the essence! The next day, we had a meeting with Royal Bank, to try and see if we could buy Royal Bank of Trinidad and Tobago, RBTT. So the first day we tried to buy Barclays, the next day Royal. “Action in their tail!” as Ronald says!”

One another occasion, coming back from Barbados with Roop, Derwin Howell and Charles Mouttet, here’s what happened. Fasten your seatbelts!

Derwin Howell:

“Coming back from a Board meeting in Barbados, our flight was delayed and Ronald got Bizzy Williams to lend us his plane to take us back to Trinidad. The plane was much smaller than we thought it would be; it could only hold four people. There was a big couch this way, and two seats that way, and there were the pilots’ seats. We got into the plane, I lounged in the back on the sofa and Charles got the co-pilot’s seat. As we went up, we realised that the one of the windows wasn’t functioning properly, we were trying to close it, and suddenly it blew out! So there we were, travelling at 3,000 feet, cold breeze BLAZING! I was getting the full blast, but Ronald was determined to go to Trinidad! Then the pilot asked, “What’s going on? The plane is decompressing!” Ronald said, “Well, the window is blown out!” So he circled around and eventually came back in. But Ronald wasn’t taking that as a no, and the pilot said that they would fix the window and in about an hour we could take off again. Well—we weren’t going anywhere with Ronald! We had to go and stay in a hotel, and eventually the regular flight left at 5 a.m. the following morning. We didn’t get much sleep that night!” 

So these are some of the stories of flying all over the Caribbean in little rinky-dink planes. You will have to read the book to find out about how Ronald had to sit under an umbrella in a leaking plane flying to Suriname on a rainy day. Or how David had to fit into the toilet of a plane coming back from the Cayman Islands. And many other weird adventures!

Thank you for contributing to the book …. And for living to tell the tale!


Friday, December 4, 2020

Archie - The Memoir

In this companion volume to “Beloved”, Thelma Seheult’s memoir, we now meet her husband Archie. 

From the origins of the McDonald clan in the misty heights of Scotland, to roaming the hills of Northern Trinidad on horseback to examine cocoa plantations for witches broom, to the matter of how to win Thelma’s heart and hand: Archie’s memoir gives us a glimpse into the life and love of a young man in Trinidad and Antigua in the early decades of the 20th century.



Sunday, January 6, 2019

Gillie's World

Short Stories from Trinidad and Antigua by Gillian McDonald Howie

"I have been writing memories of events in my life since I was a teenager and all these ‘stories’ are to be found jotted down in bits and pieces of my diaries throughout the years.
The stories, based on very young childhood memories, though not written out in any diary, are events that still stand out clearly in my mind. They formed a deep impression on me when they occurred." (Gillian McDonald Howie)

"Now and then Gillie would send a “story,” an extended memory of hers. I recognised them as special when I got them. No one else could have written them for sure. They were water-marked Gillie. I was very pleased whenever she found the inspiration to expand a memory, add details, make it more complete.
So these stories have accumulated over the years and have given me and other family members much pleasure. They deserve to be published and given the chance of another life. In one or two instances I heard Gillie tell the story. She had a tentative but serious way of telling what she remembered which was absolutely Gillie,  and added beautifully to the telling.
As it is on the page they are marvelously alive. For me, her brother who loves these stories, they will always be “Gillie’s World” where our human nature is seen with singular compassion and the light of a special understanding and love shines on all the players." (Ian McDonald)

Softcover, fully illustrated, 118 pages
ISBN 978-976-8244-25-3
Available online on Amazon and Barnes & Noble.


Wednesday, April 26, 2017

Beloved

The Memoir of Thelma Seheult

The Yseult Bridges of the 1920s Thelma Seheult's personal story, written simply, captures a moment in time that no longer exists. 
Like Yseult Bridges in her classic Victorian memoir "Child of the Tropics", Thelma, a generation later, describes with great charm and warmth her life in 20th century Trinidad: the houses she lived in, the family members and servants in whose midst she was raised, the small and the large adventures of growing up in the tropics, falling in love, raising a family.
A unique and nostalgic account of a vanished world in which life was lived at a slower pace, and in which not all was rosy, as Thelma often points out with a critical eye, but in which being "Beloved" was the most important aspect of all relationships.

"It was nearly 20 years ago that I first read mum's memoir which she wrote down in three diaries. A few months ago, while going through family papers, came across my mother's memoir and re-read it. This time, with 'new' eyes, I recognised my mother's voice; the 'matter of fact' way she spoke clearly came through to me. The memoir confirmed the love, deep respect, and kindness our parents had for each other which lies at the core of my own values." (Robin McDonald)

"Of all human bonds the most variable, volatile, and unclassifiable is the marriage bond. For Thelma and Archie, it lasted 65 years from first courting to the first death. It was love and companionship, but it was something more - a complete tolerance, affection, understanding, generosity towards one another. I always felt they had a foundation from which they could cope with anything - sickness, hardship, tragedy - a centred certainty turn and turn about in a world of ruthless change. When my parents died, we all shed tears remembering the joy and delight they had showed in each other for so long, how in perfect unison they had danced life's dance together." (Ian McDonald)

Hardcover, fully illustrated, 230 pages
ISBN 978-9768244253


Thursday, August 4, 2016

Roume de St. Laurent ... A Memoir

The new historical novel by Gérard A. Besson

A life .... a Caribbean life ... a life of a distinct Franco-Caribbean identity against the backdrop of the all-consuming French Revolution ... a life patchily documented in history ... a life seen through the eyes of the mistress, the wife .... a life of changing shape, of the shape-changer ... a life of political intrigue, of brutal slaughter, of exploration and love ... a life of a Caribbean adventurer, Philippe Rose Roume de St. Laurent.

In this book, Besson continues his exploration of the French presence in the Caribbean in the 18th and early 19th century and of the formation of a Creole identity in these islands at a time when Atlas truly shrugged in terms of European history, a quest that he began with his previous books "The Voice in the Govi", "The Cult of the Will" and "From the Gates of Aksum".

Partly historical account, partly a fictional tale, "Roume ... a Memoir" takes the reader into the confidence of Marianne, or Soubise as she becomes, and allows glimpses at Roume de St. Laurent's life through her diaries. Roume ... a Memoir is really the memoir of his lover and later wife, and bursts with the excitement of two adventurers sailing through life together, criss-crossing the Atlantic as the winds of revolutionary change blew them, trying to hold on to each other, to a dream of the future, or just for dear life itself.

ISBN: 978-976-8244-21-5
530 pages
Softcover

Available online on amazon.com, amazon.co.uk, and barnesandnoble.com
Watch Gérard Besson reading an excerpt of his book on Youtube

Book signing for customers at Excellent Stores, 29.10.2016
Editors and proofreaders Simon Lee and Prof. Bridget Brereton

Author Gérard A. Besson



Making room for Creole history
Review by Simon Lee
Published in the Trinidad Guardian, 3 October 2016

"Jerry Besson’s latest foray into the not so distant but largely forgotten past –a fictionalized memoire of Philippe Roume de Saint Laurent, the man who engineered the 1783 Cedula for Population which birthed modern Trinidad – ebulliently mixes genres in a stampede of individual and historical narratives, exploring aspects of Creole sensibility which have slipped through the seine of recent Caribbean historiography.
 Yet this heavyweight, at close to 500 pages and hugely ambitious in its scope (tracing the creolization of Enlightenment ideals and centering the ‘peripheral’ Caribbean at the heart of the ill-fated French and successful Haitian revolutions) lightly sidesteps the tedium of much historical fiction. Roume immerses readers intimately in the lives of such unforgettable imaginary characters as Sarusima the Carib or the demented white Creole Tante Mam’zelle, along with historical figures like Roume’s shape-shifting second wife Marianne ‘Soubise’ Rochard, the Grenadian mulatresse, whose fictional journals both anchor her husband’s narrative of opportunism and also provide another, insider’s point of view of the events he engaged in.
 A creole cocktail of political thriller, historical romance and dashing picaresque replete with pirates and lost gold, corrupt financiers, ravishing coquettes, rabid revolutionaries and future emperors (Dessalines, Naploeon), Roume invites us to consider modernity in the New World, or what Besson frequently refers to as “the nightmare nest of slavery”. In dramatic fashion Roume examines the entanglement of Europe and the Caribbean on the cusp of the Haitian Revolution, the crossroads where the spirits of outmoded European feudalism and nascent capitalism, Enlightenment libertarianism and universalism collided with and contested the magical realism of an Afro-Creole worldview uneasily yet expediently allied with the ambitions of the offspring of the entanglement – the conflicted mulattoes.
 Although the Haitian Revolution/War of Independence has attracted the attention of writers across the region from Walcott and Lamming, to Cesaire, Glissant and Carpentier, only historians like Laurent Dubois have attempted to chart revolutionary movements throughout the Caribbean at the end of the eighteenth century. In fiction it is only Besson who has made the connection between the Haitian uprising of 1791 and the Fedon uprising in Grenada of 1795, which like similar uprisings in St Vincent and St Lucia challenged the institution of slavery and European hegemony. It is the figure of Roume, a white Grenadian-born creole, who allows Besson to make the connection. Roume’s life journey took him on the wings of ambition and opportunism from Grenada to Trinidad, South America, Europe, Tobago and twice to Haiti, first as an agent of the French crown and then as High Commissioner of the French Revolution.
 Besson characterizes Roume as Frontier Man and Creole by birth and sometime conviction, embodying in him the contradictions of the Caribbean white massa slave-owning class, tainted by the legacy of the nightmare nest of slavery. When his first European-born wife Fanny recoils from him, still reeking from his latest sexual encounter on their Grenadian estate, he dashes her exotic fantasies (“a life of adventure, a sensual mixture of fecundity and elegance in a place on the frontier of the New World…she saw herself with him in paradise”) with all the callousness of those who viewed the slaves as property at worst, or “intelligent animals…without souls” at best. “You had to cover them, conquer them, breed them,” he rages at her with plantation pragmatism.
 Ironically it is a product of precisely this brutal regime, the mulatresse Soubise Rochard, who becomes his second wife, soul mate and companion for life. Born as Marianne Katronice, the illegitimate daughter of an estate owner and his slave mistress, she crosses the divide erected by the aristocracy of the skin when freed by her dying father. However, in pre-Fanon style, for survival purposes, she cultivates a Creole identity as Soubise, only reverting to Marianne when occasion demands.  She is aware of the common ground which unites her with Roume and which ultimately severs him from the Old World despite his manoeuvring: “As a Creole, descendant of Europeans born in these islands, Philippe had an understanding of the land, climate and the blacks…The salt of the Caribbean Sea ran in his veins…we, Philippe and I understood things differently –Phillipe’s imagination contained a great deal of my own.”
 Soubise also recognizes Roume’s fluid identity, knowing “he possessed the actor’s gift of being all things to all men. A born Creole.” His central belief in free will and choice, allied to his insatiable drive to be an agent of change lead him to a major role in the worst excesses of the French Revolution, when as a “blooded Jacobin” he embraces the period of The Terror drawing on an internalized legacy of violence: “we of the slave islands understand how to live without a sense of humanity.”

Trinidad Guardian 3 October 2016

By positioning Roume at the centre of the revolution in France, Besson echoes the theory of CLR James and others that the modern world was birthed in the Caribbean, in Haiti. Some of the best elements of Enlightenment philosophical theory (equality, liberty) were compromised, betrayed and eventually reversed by the French, because philosophy makes for bad economics and the French Revolution depended financially on slavery as much as the Ancien Régime. As one of the metropolitan characters puts it when dismissing the slaves’ claims to the Rights of Man: “ Rights, human rights cannot apply to them. Soulless, they have not the faculty of choice. Anyway that would mean a collapse of the economy. France cannot afford to free her blacks.” It took the “soulless creatures” of Haiti to effect the praxis of Equal Rights and fight for them successfully, establishing the world’s first free black republic at the same time as Napoleon swept aside the vestiges of the French Revolution to re-establish the old order, in the new guise of an empire.
 Roume’s decline is directly linked to the ascendancy of both Toussaint l’Ouverture  and Napoleon. Sent back to Hispaniola as the Republic’s High Commissioner in 1799, Soubise recognizes the dilemma he faces: “ You must make up your mind, are you of the Caribbean, or do you belong on the other side, the Atlantic.” Although Roume has by now arrived at a common understanding with Toussaint whom he reveres (“both believed that a Caribbean interpretation of the republican ideal could be arrived at. This belief had at its centre the certainty shared by them that the African…was a complete human being.”) he elects to put down his bucket with Napoleon, rejecting Toussaint’s offer “Stay and this nation will honour you…You will stand, an equal, with the men who have liberated the New World.’ Roume’s hestitation can be read as symptomatic of the Creole malaise of failing to fully embrace first liberty and much later independence, the same psychopathology Fanon and Naipaul highlighted, which is still with us in the postmodern Caribbean.
 Roume can stand alone as a viscerally entertaining text, dramatizing the genesis of the modern Caribbean. Viewed in the context of Besson’s prolific oeuvre, both historical and fictional, we can also read it as the continuing expression of a minority or sidelined narrative in the post-independence history of the Caribbean – the Afro/French-Creole story. Political correctness, politically manipulated Afrocentrism and some of the worst aspects of globalization and (under) development have obscured or obliterated this narrative, which we must all be grateful to Besson for retrieving, in the interest of better understanding who we are now and how we got here."

Wednesday, October 14, 2015

A Will and a Way

Anthony N. Sabga’s autobiography is a commemoration of the lives and adventures of those bold and enterprising men and women who braved the dangers of the ocean, the hostilities of a new environment and the privations of a residence on a distant coast to procure a better way of life for themselves and their families. 

In tracing the history of Tony’s life, we trace the history of the growth of a community and a people who amidst difficult circumstances were able to achieve a large measure of success and recognition for themselves.
Researched and written by Prof. Bridget Brereton and Dr. Raymond Ramcharitar, this book is fully illustrated with images from the archives of both the Sabga family and the many companies that Tony Sabga leads.

Paria Publishing is particularly pleased to have been asked to undertake the book design and production because of our long-standing association with the ANSA McAL Group. In 2007, we researched, wrote and produced their company history, “125 Years of Business in the Caribbean”.
Click here to view on our website.

Available in local bookstores and from ANSA McAl
Hardcover, 284 pages
ISBN 978-976-8244-18-5

Sunday, December 30, 2012

Singing Steve - A Memoir

Dr. Stephen Bennett's charming memoir, lavishly illustrated, in a beautiful hardcover edition. The life story of a larger-than-life agriculturist, veterinarian, horseracing aficionado and breeder of livestock — amongst which the once famous Buffalypso of Trinidad.

"Singing Steve", thus named for a racehorse that Dr. Bennett once owned, traces his growing up years as a child prodigy in ... here it comes .... horseracing of all things, to his university years, and his successful ventures upon his return to Trinidad, the home that he loved so dearly.

Illustrated with an cornucopia of photographs, newspaper clippings and other memorabilia from Dr. Bennett's personal archives, "Singing Steve" is the most personal and touching life story published in recent years in Trinidad and Tobago.

Paria Publishing's Dominic Besson designed this book and assisted the Bennett family in getting it printed and published. This gorgeous hardcover coffeetable book, is now available at select bookstores in Trinidad and Tobago. Contact us if you are residing abroad and wish to get a copy (pariapublishing@gmail.com).

Go to photos and additional links about "Singing Steve" on our Facebook site.

ISBN 978-976-8054-99-9
118 pages, hardcover
Illustrated in full colour throughout

Click here to read the book review by Marlon Miller in the Trinidad Express.